Listening is important

 A.o.a

Today I'll talk about something which is missing in people I felt. 

Sometimes we really want people to understand us and LISTEN to what we are saying. What we want and what is in our mind in raw form.we really want people to hear our part of story ky hum sath kia hua. Hum kia chahty thay. Us sy hota ye hai ky pain km ho jata hai taqreeban cure lagta hai wo. LISTENING heal broken hearts. You know why is it important? Because people .. by people I mean our own fellows, family members or anybody around us ..they expect from us nd when we do not listen properly that things leave its impression in their minds nd hurt them ever more. Wo weird react kerty hain unay gusah any lagta hai. Wo chup rehny lagty hain. Ye sab kyun hota hai? Kyun k"ik Shor Hota hai Un Mein jo Khamosh hota hai"..unkahee batein hoti hain. Ap ny dekha ho ga log jab baat be kerty hain to agay sy jawab ata hai,"acha na chor, dafa ker yar, han yar dunia hai aesi, hota hai yar, miss kerwao, move on,jo ho gya ho gya etc" koi ye ni kehta ao betho yar(ap sb ko ni keh re jo aesa ni kerty general bat ker r hon) detail mein btao kesy hua kia feel ker rahy ho kia chahty ho etc matlab ground realities koi ni sunta taa k aglay ka dill.halka ho. 

Us sy hota ye hai kay people sperate themselves from.otherz they go into depression. Bcz we only HEAR we Do Not LISTEN.

So, listen to people around you because you must have read it in books that socialism is a need. People need to vent their emotions. Ap sunein gay to koi apki be sunay ga. Ab ye na sochiye ga her waqt sunty to ni reh skty na ..ap sab samjhdar hain smjh jayn gay logon ko thora sa observe kia karein. 

Stay blessed you all.

Lost self

A.o.a everyone..
Hope this post will find you in the best of health.. Have you ever felt that this is not you? This is not who you are. Have you ever felt empty? Crying without reason, crying in front of mirror, saying "I'm fine everyday to alott of people" , saying yup  I'm happy despite of the fact that you are miserably upset.. Allah na kary aesa ho. But many of us are going through it.
Sleepless nights
Feeling empty
Lifeless
Doing nothing
No motivation
Feeling scared
Destructive thoughts
Hugging your ownself and crying
Tired of scrolling YouTube
No relief
Hard to get off of bed

And much more..
All such symptoms lead to anxiety. You feel that you are dead and everybody is alive. It happens due to alot of reasons. Past haunts you, Superiority inferiority complex, your  guilt.

Is sab sy hota hai ye hai ky "hum gum jaaty hain kahein, khou jaty hain"
Khud sy milny ka dil kerta hai. Dil kerta hai khul ker hansein uthein fresh ho jayn achaay sy dressup ho jayn but that mind thing that black monster in mind that evil pulls us back. It holds us.
It is not easy to fight. And especially jab wo log jo hmary bohot close hoty hain wo he  hmary bary mein kuch ni janty. Because hum un ky samny her waqt hansny ke  acting kerty rehty hain. Emojis bnaaty rehty hain. Koi ni janta hum kia hain. Hum per kiaa guzar rahe hai.  Dukh tab hota hai jab koi jan'naa be nahe chahta.
Tou solution ye hai k bs bnda expect he na karay. Ye be ni ho skta expectations are natural. Bus try kery k na sunaye apna dukh ksi ko. Koi nai sunta ulta takleef zada hote hai ky apna tmasha bnaya hai. Is liye bs family meimn he koi sun ky tou acha ni tou Sajdy mein Us zaat ko sb btaaa do . Wo sunay ga bohot achy sy sunay ga. Mana be ni karay ga kuch btany sy. Wo Allah hai. Wahe sun skta hai. Insanon k liye you sai kaha hai ksi ny.. Jiska gham usi ka gham baqi sab Tamashaii..